Both men and women remain in dysfunctional, loveless relationships when it is materially opportune

Both men and women remain in dysfunctional, loveless relationships when it is materially opportune

In her work, bell hooks explores the complexities of relationships and the ways in which societal norms and expectations can impact them. One of the key themes she addresses is the idea that both men and women may choose to remain in dysfunctional, loveless relationships when there are material benefits to be gained. This concept is particularly relevant in a society that places a high value on wealth, status, and material possessions.

Hooks argues that in a capitalist society, individuals are often encouraged to prioritize material gain over emotional fulfillment. This can lead to people staying in relationships that are not fulfilling or healthy simply because they provide financial stability or other material benefits. For example, a woman may choose to stay with a wealthy man who mistreats her because she values the financial security he provides. Similarly, a man may stay with a woman who is emotionally distant because she comes from a wealthy family and can provide him with a comfortable lifestyle.