One day, I want someone to look past my fake smile, pull me close and say, No, You're not okay
One day, I want someone to look past my fake smile, pull me close and say, No, You're not okay
A fake smile is a mask that many of us wear to hide our true emotions. It's a defense mechanism that we use to protect ourselves from the outside world. We put on a brave face and pretend that everything is okay, even when we are struggling on the inside. But what happens when someone sees through that facade and recognizes that we are not okay?The thought of someone looking past our fake smile and acknowledging our pain can be both terrifying and comforting. It's terrifying because it means that we can no longer hide behind our mask, that we have to confront our true feelings and vulnerabilities. But it's also comforting because it means that someone cares enough to see past the facade and reach out to us in our time of need.
When someone pulls us close and tells us that we are not okay, it can be a powerful moment of connection and validation. It's a reminder that we are not alone in our struggles, that there are people who care about us and want to help us through our pain. It's a moment of vulnerability and honesty that can lead to healing and growth.
Being able to let go of our fake smile and show our true emotions is a courageous act. It requires us to be vulnerable and open ourselves up to the possibility of rejection and judgment. But it also allows us to connect with others on a deeper level and build stronger relationships based on honesty and authenticity.
So, the next time you see someone wearing a fake smile, take a moment to look past the facade and ask them how they are really feeling. Show them that you care and that you are there for them, no matter what. And if you are the one wearing the fake smile, remember that it's okay to not be okay, and that there are people who are willing to support you through your struggles.