You may poke a man's fire after you've known him for seven years

You may poke a man's fire after you've known him for seven years

The proverb "You may poke a man's fire after you've known him for seven years" speaks to the idea that it takes time to truly understand and build a relationship with someone. Just as you wouldn't intrude on someone's personal space or feelings without knowing them well, you shouldn't interfere with their thoughts or emotions until you have established a strong bond.